In this episode, Dita and you can Dajana approach brand new controversial topic from matchmaking/marrying outside of the Albanian culture
Within this extremely requested topic, Dita and you may Dajana approach the subject away from each other points away from views which is: the comfort and you can expertise out-of relationship/marrying from inside the community, therefore the anticipate and delightful extension of your own community that is a result of matchmaking/marrying outside of they. They read out loud a message sent out-of an effective listener whom shares the woman tale out-of relationships a good Latino men from inside the magic for 5 age and just how it offers impacted the relationship prior to now, and you will wants recommendations on how to approach this unavoidable point together with her family given that this woman is happy to has a high-height union with him subsequently. Dita and Dajana display their matchmaking knowledge of low-Albanian males and determine why it by themselves avoid from dating Albanian people. It talk about the pro’s and con’s that come with this. They dissect the forbidden topic of the insights as to why Albanians end up being this insane pressure up until now/get married within their community, along with challenge it with the-heading and outdated formality by focusing on the beauty that accompanies acquiring the liberty up to now/marry The person you Like without the need to deal with one effects instance as actually shunned, singled-aside, chatted about or-poor circumstances scenario- getting “disowned”. As to the reasons are unable to i undertake everyone despite race, faith, intercourse, and you will culture and start to decide which i’ve a top-level relationship which have just about how precisely it like and reduce you? Exactly why is it so very hard to possess Albanians to understand the notion you to definitely “outsiders” are only since eager to share the Albanian society and indulge by themselves within it? Driving a car one Albanians possess of “losing” their culture/way of life because of the neighborhood increasing its perspectives merely exhibits the concern toward facts of the rejecting individuals who create want to date/marry outside the community. Just how are they meant to display their community along with their the newest-discovered partner/family members if you ignore him or her prior to they could beginning to would thus? Why can’t Albanians fool around with its rigid religion out-of a strict-knit nearest and dearest ethical and apply one to to people just who big date/wed beyond the society so you’re able to greet these with unlock possession and enable people who aren’t Albanian to help you incorporate the latest society since well?
Within this occurrence, Dita and you will Dajana approach the debatable topic of relationship/marrying outside of the Albanian community
Inside extremely requested material, Dita and you will Dajana method the niche off both things from viewpoints which is: the comfort and you may familiarity regarding relationship/marrying during the culture, therefore the desired and beautiful extension of your community that is a direct result matchmaking/marrying outside it. It read aloud a contact sent from good listener which shares their tale of relationships a great Latino male into the miracle for 5 many years and just how it’s impacted the relationship in earlier times, and you can asks for great tips on dealing with this inescapable topic along with her members of the family due to the fact the woman is prepared to have a top-peak union that have him subsequently. Dita and you may Dajana share their dating experience in non-Albanian men and you can determine why it by themselves avoid off relationships Albanian men. It discuss the pro’s and you can con’s that come with so it. They dissect the actual taboo subject by the insights as to 
why Albanians become this wild tension up to now/wed within society, as well as problem that it towards-heading and you may outdated foregone conclusion of the focusing on the wonder that comes with obtaining freedom yet/get married Who you Love without having to deal with one outcomes particularly as being shunned, singled-away, chatted about otherwise-poor circumstances situation- are “disowned”. As to the reasons are unable to we take on all people regardless of competition, faith, intercourse, and you may people and begin to determine just who you will find a high-peak partnership which have merely regarding how it like and you may lose united states? Why is it so hard to own Albanians to grasp the idea you to definitely “outsiders” are merely because the desperate to show brand new Albanian society and you will pamper by themselves in it? Worries you to definitely Albanians features away from “losing” the community/way of life as a result of the community broadening their limits merely exhibits the fear into reality by the rejecting those who do decide to date/get married beyond your culture. Exactly how are they designed to show its society and their the-receive companion/members of the family for those who avoid her or him ahead of capable beginning to carry out thus? As to why are unable to Albanians have fun with their rigid religion regarding a strict-knit family moral and implement you to to the people which go out/wed outside of their neighborhood to help you invited them with open hands and permit people that aren’t Albanian so you’re able to accept this new culture given that better?
